RESPECT FREEDOM!
July 1, 2000
By Shelia Shumate
As we approach the forth of July,
the word freedom comes to my mind. Free to be all we can be, free to make
choices. Each of us has the power to create the life we desire.
There are many ways to think of
freedom. Have you ever known a friend or family member who was having a
difficult time and you wanted to help them out? So you offer advice and
they seem offended or feel it was inappropriate? If the time is not
right, they will not be receptive to hearing it. Reflect upon your own
life; when you were experiencing a low in life and looking for your own
answers, would you rather someone just listen to you rather than telling
you what to do? When we listen rather than telling others, allows
them their freedom and the space to do as they wish, without judgment.
It is important for us to remember
not to impose our ideas, thoughts and opinions upon anyone, unless they
ask for it. We want to respect their freedom. Freedom to do as they wish,
freedom to think as they wish and the freedom to act upon that which they
know.
If you share your experience and
advice with others, do it with a deep and sincere love. We want to express
ourselves through acts of goodwill. Sometimes just listening without giving
advice, can be a true show of friendship. Because each situation is different
and every person is different, there is no one way is right to behave.
Come from your heart space; allow higher guidance to speak rather than
ego.
Sometimes, just letting another
person know you are there for them and that they are loved, might be all
they need. It could open the door for them to trust their own inner guidance.
Make this a week to allow freedom
for others to think, to act and Just Be as they are!
AH, TO BE A CHILD AGAIN!
July 15, 2000
By Shelia Shumate
As a child, we play, romp and giggle
throughout the day and yet there is a longing; that desire to be big like
an older sibling or parent. As a child, we think that by being older we
are free to do as we please and have the power to make choices. Little
did we know that being older and bigger also means bigger responsibilities.
We are free to make our choices and also faced with the consequences of
them. Now that we are older and bigger we think back on how free
we were and long for the days filled with playing, romping and giggling.
Now, I am not saying that everyone's
childhood was like that, but many experienced it that way. Each of
us can find something or sometime in our childhood that was filled
with playing or giggling. We can still be a child, with a adult body, though.
We can choose to laugh, play and giggle while taking on the responsibilities
of adulthood. Think back when we went to school: we studied, worked hard
and then recess came. Then went out to play, romp and giggle. Fifteen
minutes later we were back in the classroom, feeling refreshed, mind renewed,
and ready to study again. What an asset we would be to the businesses,
if employers allowed employees to have fifteen minutes of carefree exercise
in environment of fun and laughter.
It is important to remember that
even though you may not have the ideal situation at work that you
can still create fun and laughter there. If you look for the humor
and the positive things, you will find them.
Today, when you begin to feel stressed,
tired or lack clarity, why not bring your inner child out to play?
Take a mini break and be that child in a visualization. Feel what it is
like to have energy, stamina, joy and fun. You will feel refreshed and
renewed, ready to go back to what you were doing.
Make this a day of remembering the
child within and allow yourself that freedom to enjoy, play and Just
Be!